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Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts

Monday, November 11, 2013

Week 22 and catching up

Belly pics to come soon!

Here's some pics of the anatomy scan which was a few weeks ago.  



Baby looked great!

We also had the fetal echo done at U of M and the heart looks great!  I had 2 different doctors scan me and we told them both that we weren't finding out the sex early.  Patrick said the second doctor didn't do a very good job of staying clear of that area!  He thinks he knows what we're having!  ;p.  We go back in January for a follow up echo just to make sure things look ok.  

Survey of last few weeks:

How far along?  22ish weeks

Maternity clothes:  yes and I bought few more winter tops from Burlington coat factory.  They had such cute tops!  Wearing all maternity pants now.  

Weight gain:  up like 12 pounds from 120 to 132

Symptoms:  just started getting more aches and hip pain, cramping some.  No more headaches!!  Food kinda tastes off again.  Tired and moody at times.  

Size of baby:  he or she was around 10 oz at the anatomy scan

Gender:  team green!  Pat is convinced boy because he thinks he saw stuff during both ultrasounds.  We'll see!!

Nursery:  our walls are light gray and we'll keep the lavender and yellow stuff if its another girl.  If its a boy I will probably do an aviation theme or nautical theme. Colors maybe orange and navy or teal or red, navy and yellow

Cravings:  nothing in particular 

Sleep: not great but I'm used to it!  Haven't slept well in 4 years.  Pee a few times, toss and turn.  Give Colette milk once in night.  

What I'm looking forward to:  viability 

Advice:  enjoy my family of 4 :)

Milestones:  over half way!

Amelia update:  she is loving writing and practicing reading.  She is just growing up way too fast!  She is definitely a leader and outgoing.  She loves Sunday school and awana on Wednesdays.  She is in the 50th % for weight and height and doctor thinks she'll be 5'3 or 5'4 as an adult..which is average female height.  She's a great sleeper and has almost been potty trained for a year now day and night.  Praying Colette will be easy in that area as well!  Amelia still has some tantrums and does whine quite a bit.  :) we love her!

Colette update:  she was weaned from me at 14 months and has been weaned from her pacifier for a week now.  She wakes up once for milk in the night.  She is talking more and more and copies most words.  She loves playing with sister and wrestling with her.  She is in 85th % for weight and 65th % for height. She is slimming down just like Amelia did.  She is now running all over and just seems like a big girl and not a baby anymore.  She's such a sweetie and so love able.  She gives huggies and kisses :).  

Thankful for my kiddos and love being a mommy!  Trying not to think about the challenges of 3 yet :/. It overwhelms me when I do...day by day and allowing The Lord to work in and through me will be the only way to make it!!!





Thursday, August 8, 2013

8 week survey and first appointment

I had my first appointment yesterday with the new practice here in our new hometown Jackson.  I'm not loving seeing a new doctor and midwives and I miss Saginaw!  I met with the midwife yesterday and went over paperwork things.  Pat took the morning off and we hired a sitter for the girls.  I thought we'd check for a viable pregnancy but she said no we're just doing history.  She said at 12 weeks is when you meet with the doctor and he does an ultrasound and physical.  I asked why they wouldn't just do that all in one visit.  She said, well I can do your physical today, so we did.  She ended up getting out the doppler and checking for the heartbeat.  What do you know?  She heard it right away!  170's.  She said there was no way that I was only 8 weeks, that my uterus felt like 12 or 13 and she has never picked up a heartbeat at 8.  She ended up setting up an ultrasound for that afternoon.  (Which we had to find another sitter for and we missed nap:( )...  She said maybe I had a fibroid or cyst that was making me big or maybe my dates were wrong or multiples.  There was no way my dates were wrong!  We were nerved up and the ultrasound tech was kind of cold not divulging much of what she saw.  She did tell is the baby looked good and had a heartbeat of 180.  The baby measured 8 weeks 2 days..exactly my calculations! She then said we had to sit outside the room and she would call my doctor.  Very odd situation!  Finally, she came out and said the midwife was on the phone and wanted to speak with me.  The midwife said all is fine and your baby is a super baby!  She's never heard a heartbeat that early...which I think is weird.  So yeah, we praised The Lord as we left and felt relieved.  She scared us for nothing, but I'm glad we got to see our baby.  I guess your uterus makes it way up a lot faster with each pregnancy :).


8 week survey

How far along: 8 weeks 3 days

Weight: 123

Weight gain: not sure what i started at

Symptoms: short of breath, vivid dreams, peeing a lot, queasy, tired, moody, dizzy sometimes and headachy...oh, I tried sea bands and they work!  They hurt your wrists after awhile though.

Maternity clothes: no, but I feel like I'm showing already.

Gender: thinking another girl, like 90% sure in my gut.  We are waiting to find out this time :)

Movement: nope

Sleep: not good...Colette cosleeps with us and still nurses.  Ready to end that!

Food: I'm hungry a lot but also feel queasy.  Depends on the day with what sounds good or not.

Milestones: heartbeat!

Weekly wisdom: nap when kids nap and rest as much as possible.

Sisters updates: Amelia will be 3 next month and is a typical 2 1/2 year old.  She loves learning, art, watching shows, puzzles, whining, talking and singing.  She can count to 20 and knows most sight words.    Been potty trained since last Christmas and sleeps pretty good.  She attends the 3 and 4 Sunday school at church and will be taking dance this fall.  She wants a brother :).  
Colette just turned 1.  She is a happy baby most of the time but is very clingy to mama. She says hi and bye and loves to clap and wave.  She is not a good sleeper.  She loves to eat and nurse.  The girls love each other but also fight daily.  Looking forward to adding another one!! 




Tuesday, January 10, 2012

New Year, New Blog

Hello!

We kind-of started a new blog because of so many new things happening. First, we live in Colorado now. Second, we are expecting another little baby in July. Anyways, there are so many updates and things to talk about. The other blog is private for now, but I will post a link to it when it goes public.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Maternity pics finally!!

My sister-in-law Emileigh took some maternity pictures for us 3 days before I delivered Amelia. We were all hanging out in Caseville and we were able to go down to the beach and get some pictures around sunset. This was her first "photography session" and it was a great time! Here are a few...









We had narrowed down the names to 3 and took a picture with all 3 names in the sand. Here is your name Amelia!

Thanks Em!!

Saturday, September 11, 2010

37 week stats and pics

How far along?: 37 weeks
How big is baby?: Probably over 6 pounds
Weight Gain?: Down a pound this past week. Total weight gain: 25 pounds...I'm happy with that! Weight as of thursday morning: 150 lbs.
Maternity Clothes?: yes...busted out some warmer clothes this past week.
Sleep?: Still tossing and turning, still get up lots to pee.
Best moment this week?: Getting to take a nap after work on thursday. I really haven't napped this pregnancy...and I'm exhausted.
Food Cravings?: Cinnamon toast!
Gender?: She's a girl! AHHH---we still need a name people!!
Stretch Marks: Nada that I can see thankfully!
Movement?: some days more than others...I think she's running out of room.
What I miss?: Feeling energized
Belly Button?: In just a tad...almost flat. I don't think it will pop though.
Labor Signs?: Just tons of Braxton Hicks...and having menstrual type cramps more and more.
What I'm looking forward to?: Seeing some family this weekend, possibly.
Nursery progress: Just waiting on our wall decal for the crib wall. We still need to hang the memory boxes. Everything else is all set! I have our bags mostly packed too. Car seat is installed.
Main symptoms this week: I am really thankful...I have not had any swelling so far this pregnancy, I can still wear my rings. I haven't had acid reflux in a few weeks. I've been able to eat full meals. I think she is sitting really low now. I just started having achy groin/upper legs. Super tired. Braxton Hicks all the time...some that kinda take my breath away. But, really I think I feel pretty good overall at this point! Can't complain :)

I'm just so so so thankful to the Lord for allowing us to get this far in this pregnancy. He has brought us through so much! I'm trying to not have any expectations for the labor/delivery part. I'm trying to just trust in His plan for us, and praying for good wisdom from the doctors and nurses. We'll be in good hands!


WARNING: bare belly pics!!! Decided we have to do at least one for this pregnancy!








Friday, September 3, 2010

Mom's side shower

I've been a slacker about my blog posts. Here are a few pictures from the shower that was thrown on Aug. 28 at my Aunt Nancy's house. My Aunt Nancy, her girls and my other aunts, and grandma all did such nice job! I was overwhelmed with all of the love shown for us. My Uncle's girlfriend Melissa made the cake and my Grandma made all of the chocolates shown below. There were probably 40ish people there...it was a great day!!







36 week stats

Will post a picture later on!

How far along?: 36 weeks
How big is baby?: Maybe close to 6 pounds?
Weight Gain?: Wow...I gained 6 pounds in the last 2 weeks according to my doctor's scale. Total weight 151 lbs....I can't believe I'm over 150!!
Maternity Clothes?: yup
Sleep?: Tossing and turning all night still...and still getting up 3 times to go pee.
Best moment this week?: Getting to see Darci and Brandon's daughter Kilah...she is beautiful.
Food Cravings?: Just super hungry.
Gender?: girl
Movement?: yup
What I miss?: Not being so tired all of the time.
Belly Button?: still in a bit
Labor Signs?: Still lots of BH contrax. They must not be doing much though. My doctor did not do an internal yesterday, so I have no clue what my cervix is up to.
What I'm looking forward to?: Holding our daughter.
Nursery progress: My sis-in-law has really helped me get organized this past week. She bought me some baskets and bins. I got all of her clothes washed and organized. We still need to hang the mirror and pictures on the walls. I need to wash the cloth diapers and sterilize the bottle stuff. I started packing the diaper bag, but still need to pack our bags. Also, need to put in the car seat.
Weekly wisdom: Talk to your doctor about insecurities that you have. I have been feeling insecure about my baby being small or not getting enough nutrients because of some comments I have gotten from people when they compare me to other pregnant women. Anyways, I feel much better after talking with him. He told me that I have always measured on or ahead and how you show tells nothing of how big or small your baby will be. He said alot has to do with your muscles and how weak or strong they are, your starting weight and your build/frame. And he said, "you don't want a huge baby anyways, do you?" I guess I have just been feeling like my baby needs to be big to be healthy for some reason. In the end I just want a healthy baby. After having an unhealthy baby, I have been insecure at times wondering if our little girl will be healthy. He said to take these comments as compliments. All you pregnant women know how annoying people's comments can be sometimes though!! Oh, hormones ;)

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

32 week stats and preview of nursery

How far along?: 32 weeks
How big is baby?: under 4 pounds
Weight Gain: +1 pound in the last 2 weeks. Total weight: 143 lbs. up 18 lbs total.
Maternity Clothes?: yes, I bought a denim skirt last week and I have worn it like 5 times already! Wish I would've bought it sooner..
Sleep?: Has been OK, just toss and turn alot. My back and ribs have been sore the last few days.
Best moment this week?: Getting more baby stuff done...Kevin and Amy stopped by last week with the stroller and carseat. What a blessing!
Food Cravings?: I crave bad foods...I tried McDonald's the other day...McChicken and small fry..bad idea!! It completely messed my stomach up...looks like my body is used to not eating grease.
Gender?: girl
Movement?: yes, the ultrasound today showed her head down, and her feet up by my ribcage. I feel hiccups down low usually by my left hip.
What I miss?: a cool house
Belly Button?: still in a bit
Labor Signs?: just getting more and more BH contrax. friday was my last cervical check. It is holding strong around 3ish. I get to get off of the Procardia in 2 weeks!!
What I'm looking forward to?: The wedding this weekend
Nursery progress: Painting done, curtains up...i guess we're just going to buy a glider now for the nursery. It will cost too much to reupholster the rocker.
Weekly wisom: Don't sweat the small stuff

I will post a belly picture later!



Friday, July 9, 2010

28 weeks yay!!


How far along?: 28 weeks
How big is baby?: around 2 1/4 pounds
Weight Gain?: I weighed 141 at the doctor's on wednesday...so I had lost 4 pounds in the hospital, and I gained back 3 in a week! Total gain: 16 lbs.
Maternity Clothes?: all bottoms, still can wear some normal tops
Sleep?: super tired...part of it is from the Procardia, and most of it is from tossing and turning at night, and being pregnant!
Best moment this week?: Seeing little girl on ultrasound again :)
Food Cravings?: Just flat out hungry alot! But, I'm on a low-fat diet...boo
Gender?: girl...still need a name
Movement?: yup
What I miss?: A cool house...not a 92 degree house...grrr, oh well, I still love summer!
Belly Button?: it's not a crater anymore...my scar from my belly ring looks gross though. It's still an inny as of now.
Labor Signs?: BH...the procardia has seemed to help though. My cervix is still great at 4.2
What I'm looking forward to?: Seeing husband's family this weekend
Nursery progress: I ended up taking back the bed set, curtains, and bins. The colors just did not look right with the furniture. So, I'm kinda back at square 1 again.
Milestone: In 3rd tri baby!!

Finally posting a belly picture. I still feel kinda small...but definiately making progress :)

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Week 25 spent in the hospital :(


I'm back home finally! I have wrote out a short version of events and a long version of events.

LONG VERSION.....

Sunday: Normal Sunday for us, church, visiting, relaxing. Patrick and I were at home in the p.m. I made a salad with some raw veggies and chicken breast. He made some pizza rolls and split half with me. I got about half-way through my meal, when I started getting a pain about where my diaphragm is. I got up, walked around and the pain got worse. It felt like severe pressure on my chest and radiating pain through to my back. It was so intense that I told him that we needed to go to the ER. We jumped in the van and took off. About 2 miles down the road, the pain was so bad that I could hardly talk. I told him to call the ambulance. We pulled off onto the side of the road and waited for the ambulance to arrive. I think it took them about 10 minutes to get to us. I called my dad in the meantime, and asked him what a gall bladder attack was like (he had a bad one a few years ago) and told him that we were going to the hospital. I wasn't sure if I was having a heart attack or what. The ambulance came to the intersection and I jumped out of the van and over to it. They checked my vitals and told me that it probably was not my heart. Anyways, we finally made it to the hospital. I was literally in the hospital room for two minutes, when I threw-up. After that I felt completely fine again. Whoo...I was so relieved to be rid of that horrible pain! Long story short for this day...the Dr. told me that I probably just had some acid-reflux from the hormones of pregnancy. We got discharged and went home to sleep.

Monday: I woke up, ate a bowl of multi-grain Cheerios, topped with some raspberries and drenched in rice milk. I went to work as usual, still feeling OK. My first customer arrived around noon or so...and that's when I started feeling the pains again. I layed down on the futon in the back, took some maalox and called my mom. She agreed to relieve me at 3:00 from work, so I could go home and rest. I called Patrick and told him that I wasn't feeling well again. He got out of work early and brought me some prilosec. The pain was getting more intense, so I called my Dr. She said to go back in if the pain was bad and if I was unable to eat or drink. So, we headed back to the ER. This time they did an ultrasound of my gall bladder. They found that I did have some issues with it. My blood tests also came back, showing that my liver enzymes were elevated. They decided to admit me to the OB floor and hook me up to fluids. Once we got over to the OB floor, I noticed I was having alot of tightening or contractions. I was put in a room with another girl and told that my husband could not stay with me. I could not help but start to cry. After everything we went through last year, I was not going to be by myself through this new journey. Finally, after talking to the doctor and nurse, they moved me to a private room so he could stay with me. I was contracting every ten minutes or so, which they said was probably from dehydration. That night the contractions led up, thankfully.

Tuesday: I was taken for an MRI. They found a stone blocking my bile duct. I had to talk with a surgeon, GI Dr., and OB. They all said that I had to get this taken care of, because it could potentially lead to pancreatitis, which can get bad in pregnant women. The surgeon did not think that he could do a surgery to remove the gall bladder, because my uterus was getting too large. The GI Dr. was not comfortable doing the procedure to clear our the bile duct on a pregnant woman. He recommended that I go to a more specialized hospital like the University of Michigan Hospital. I think that day I was allowed to eat a liquid diet. I only got down some jello and a few bites of broth. I just was in constant pain. I was leary about taking pain meds, not wanting to expose my baby to too much. After they decided it best to send me to U of M, they did not allow me to eat or drink anything. The plan was for me to leave the next morning. During the night, I started having contractions every 2-5 minutes. It was not a good night of sleeping. The nurse told me that I needed to take a medicine to stop contractions, but the med would make my heart race. I am not a caffeine drinker, because I hate the feeling of my heart beating fast. So, because I was half asleep, I told her no. Anyways, in the morning, the Dr. told me that I really needed to take a medicine. I ended up taking Procardia, which does not make your heart race.

Wednesday: We basically waited all day for the word on if they had a bed ready for me at U of M. At about 1 pm, my bed shook. Come to find out, I had felt the tremors from the earthquake in Canada! Finally, around 4:30 pm, the ambulance guys arrived to take me to U of M. It was a 2 hour ride full of bumps. I was wheeled to the 5th floor of the main hospital. We were only in our room for 20 minutes, when everyone got evacuated into the hall because of a tornado warning. Patrick's mom and sister arrived (safely thankfully) and we all waited in the hall. They did all of my Iv's and stuff out there. I started feeling more contractions around this time. After the tornado warning was lifted at 10:30, they took me to the OB floor to get checked out. I was contracting again every 3-5 minutes...oy! We were super anxious to find out if this was causing me to go into pre-term labor. I had an internal, and it showed that my cervix was great. She also did the FFN test, to see if I could possibly go into labor in the next 2 weeks. We were told to just sit tight until the tests came back. We were both so exhausted. At about 2 am...the doc came in and told us that the test was negative. I did test positive for group B strep, and also for a bacterial infection (which could be treated with antibiotics). We got back to our room around 3 am. We had a new roommate. She was in her 80's and talked the whole night. She was in pain and the nurses were in and out constantly.

Thursday: We met with different doctors to decide the plan. They all agreed to not remove my gall bladder at this point in the pregnancy. I would need to go on a low-fat diet the rest of the pregnancy and get it removed after the baby is born. They also decided, to do a procedure called the ERCP. With a scope, they would go through the esophagus, through the stomach to reach the bile duct. They would cut it, to enlarge it, and remove anything that was blocking it. I would be put under with general anesthesia. They explained the risks. One was that the baby could go into distress and they gave me the choice of taking her by a classic c-section to save her. They also went through the risks of the x-rays that had to be done during the procedure. My belly would be shielded though. It was a very scary time for me. I felt so guilty for exposing my little girl to all of this stuff. Not at all what I had planned for her...but we had to weigh the risks and benefits. We were scheduled at 3pm...we made it to prep and after waiting for hours, found out that they were not really ready for me. They OB department was not lined up with the gastro department. I won't get into all of the details, but along with the doctors, we decided to reschedule for the following morning. That night was another sleepless one. Our roommate was not doing well at all. Her family was coming in from out of town and the entire night was filled with comings and goings of nurses, doctors and lights on and off.

Friday: We headed into pre-op at 10 am. I was super nervous. The procedure started around 11. I woke up to a wonderful OB nurse and she said that all went well! I asked to see Patrick right away. The baby was kicking away and doing well. I spent the afternoon with my family. I even got to go outside. I also got to eat!! The surgeon checked on me in the evening. He told us that the bile duct getting blocked during pregnancy was very rare. They do about 10 of these procedures a year. I was looking forward to a night of rest, but unfortunately we had roommates in and out of the room all night. They had moved the one lady to a private room, moved a new one in (who passed gas all night and who could not hear, so everyone was yelling at her), she got moved to ICU at 2 am...another new roomie moved in at 4am. She kept complaining that she could not swallow. So yeah, I think I slept for 2 hours.




Saturday: Released at noon...yay!! Freedom and food. On the way home we stopped at a Panera. I of course ordered low-fat items. We got onto the highway and our van was not gaining speed. The speedometer was not working either. We drove a few miles on the shoulder to the next exit. We pulled off and made a few calls. Patrick filled the transmission fluid. We ended up driving home on back roads under 40 mph. We finally made it home around 4:30. My parents made us dinner and we chilled the rest of the night. Thank you Lord for getting us through the week!!!



(I left out a few things...I am sick of writing though :) )


Short version....

Went to the ER sunday night, released and back in on monday. Found out that my bile duct was blocked from my gall bladder. Surgeons in Saginaw did not feel comfortable doing anything to me because of the pregnancy. I was transported to the UofM hospital in Ann Arbor on wednesday. Thursday, ERCP was supposed to be done, but things got messed up before the procedure with scheduling. Friday, ERCP was done successfully. Bile duct is all cleaned out and opened up. I will get my gall bladder out after the baby is born. I was released on Saturday. My week was not the greatest. I could not eat or drink (except for 2 days I did try clear liquids), I had old ladies for roommates that were loud and we got nooo sleep all week. I had lots of contractions and was given medicine. It was a very suspenseful week and thankfully we are home. Oh, on the way home from Ann Arbor, our van had some transmission trouble. We had to drive under 40, in 3rd gear, on back roads. What a week!!


My husband was absolutely phenomenal through this. He literally never left my side. I noticed after about a day, that he would not eat around me. He hardly ate, because he felt bad that I couldn't eat and he slept in very uncomfortable conditions. We have been through so much in our marriage, and I am more and more amazed by his loyalty and love for me and our children. Our families were also very supportive. My parents visited several times and so did Patrick's mom and sister. My brothers, wives and kids also visited. I was so uplifted to see my niece and nephew. Our pastor also visited twice, and so did the our special friends from church the Greenfield's. Thanks guys for the prayers and love. :)

Friday, June 4, 2010

24 weeks

I've been slacking...sorry!

How far along?: 24 weeks
How big is baby?: I think a little over a pound
Weight Gain?: I weighed myself this morning...I weighed in at 138lbs...up 13 pounds total.
Maternity Clothes?: Mostly, I wear normal shirts still...smalls and more mediums now. I bought some sale stuff at Old Navy last week, and I finally bought a pair of pregnancy shorts (not capris, but shorts)...yeah my legs are super super white though ;)
Sleep?: Exhaustion has been hitting me for the past 2 weeks...like 1st trimester sleepiness.
Best moment this week?: Well, last week I got to see baby girl on ultrasound again...and in 4d for awhile. I go in this coming Wednesday for my last cervical check, yay!
Food Cravings?: I'm just pretty much hungry alot now!
Gender?: girl...still working on a name :)
Movement?: tons...I can feel her stretched out, moving down low and up high at the same time, or feeling movement in 3 places at once.
What I miss?: Liam so much lately it hurts...my heart has really been aching lately. I think because it's almost the year marker and because we've been working on designing his headstone..finally.
Belly Button?: ugly, like a crater
Labor Signs?: hope not...just been feeling randon cramps, pressure, and stuff sometimes...realized I can't over do it at all without paying for it big time after.
What I'm looking forward to?: holding my baby in my arms and hearing her cry
Nursery progress: crib is all set-up, bedding is here, changing table all set-up...tried out one paint sample, chandelier hung, 1/2 of the storage bins just arrived yesterday for the changing table, clothes from Chrissy are sorted out, dresser and rocker will be going to our friend Matt's this weekend to be painted, might order curtains soon from Urban Outfitters...half of room is cleaned out!
Weekly wisdom: focus on the people that are supportive, not on the ones that aren't! AND, don't over-do it...you are now 30, you were just pregnant last year, and you were not back in shape when you got pregnant again six months ago!!

I will post a new belly pic tonight or this weekend of just me.


Monday, May 24, 2010

21+ weeks


At my cousin Erin's shower
Erin 30 weeks with twins, Anne 21+ weeks, Me 21 weeks, Stephanie 10 weeks

How far along?: 21+ weeks
How big is baby?: size of a papaya, and almost a pound
Weight Gain?: I weighed 135 at the doctor's this past thursday, so up 10 lbs!
Stretch Marks?: nada
Maternity Clothes?: yes...realized i like the full-panel the best...the half-panel pants hurt!
Sleep?: so-so, back is starting to hurt
Best moment this week?: lots of things...getting bags of baby girl clothes from my sister-in-law Chrissy (along with some other things), Erin's babies shower...
Food Cravings?: Charley's steakery chicken philly with fries, dipped in malt vinegar and ketchup!!
Gender?: lovely little girl
Movement? More and more...hubs felt her 2 weeks ago
What I miss?: not being so emotional and overwhelmed
Belly Button?: wide and shallow...and ugly :)
Labor Signs?: no...just a few braxon hicks
What I'm looking forward to?: 3rd trimester
Milestone?: lots of little ones...over halfway there!

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

She's heart healthy!!!

*Sigh*

I'm just so grateful...so thankful...so humbled. Yesterday we met with Dr. Wechter. I love that doctor so much. He's the doctor that says...feel free to call me day or night with any concerns. His nurse met with us first and did a quick scan of the baby. Then the doctor came in. He started scanning her heart right away. He said he could tell within the first 30 seconds that her heart looked healthy. He was in a very good mood...joking around alot with us. Last year was all bad news appointments, with very somber nurses and doctors. Yesterday's appointment was the complete opposite. I could go into more detail about yesterday's visit...but I'll just sum it up. Baby girl seems to be completely healthy!! We actually left an appointment smiling! So, thank you all for the many thoughts and many prayers.

Here is one of the pictures from yesterday. She is measuring still a week ahead at 19w4days. Due date still 10-01-10

not so clear picture...but it's a close-up of her face...side profile...and her hand coming up to her mouth, with mouth open. Arrow is pointing to her nose.





xoxoxoxo--Megan

Sunday, May 2, 2010

It's a....

GIRL!!!!


It's been quite the week.

Sunday: Went into the ER, because I had been having lots of pain and pressure. I wanted to make sure my cervix was fine, and that I wasn't having contractions. After a bunch of tests, exams, and an ultrasound, they diagnosed me with an acute UTI. During the ultrasound we got to see our baby. Much to our surprise, the tech did a complete anatomy scan. The most exciting part, was that he could see all four chambers of the heart. What a relief! Liam's heart defect was diagnosed at 16 weeks, because it was so noticeable that he only had 2 developed chambers. We're so thankful for seeing four chambers. The tech told us that he was not allowed to tell us the gender at the ER. So, instead of telling us what it was, he just said.."I don't see any boy parts!"

Tuesday: Picked up our new used mini-van. It's a humble vehicle, but it's a great step-up from Patrick's Safari...which, by the way, sold very quickly for the asking price. Woo-hoo!

Wednesday: Appointment at the OB. The tech did my cervical length ultrasound. Cervix is good. She also confirmed the sex of the baby...still a girl! Just seems weird to not be pregnant with a boy...but I'm super excited!! That night, we visited Patrick's mom and step-dad. Her birthday was days before, so we thought we'd surprise her with a visit. She was floored. We gave her a small card that said "It's a girl," along with some pink flowers. She sobbed. It's just nice to be able to give our family some good news.

Thursday: We told my parents. We went over to their house with a card. The front said "It's a..." and the inside said "GIRL!!" My dad had guessed boy, and my mom was on the fence...so yeah, they were surprised, thankful and excited!

Friday: We headed to my brother's graduation ceremony in Indiana. We had a great weekend with my family.

Saturday: Graduation stuff...fun day!

Sunday: Headed back to Michigan to attend Patrick's best friend's graduation ceremony. Him and his wife are also expecting a girl. Can't wait to see Patrick and Brandon with their daughters together! And the last thing to top off the week...Anne called and told me that they are having a BOY. I am so excited for them! So many are having girls right now, that it will be nice to have a boy in the mix.

Here are some pics from this past week:


18 weeks :)



Rents, bros and me...




and lastly...18 week stats


How far along?: 18 weeks

Total weight gain: I weigh the same again....I guess I've gained 6ish pounds total.

How much does baby weigh?: ??

Maternity clothes?: yup

Stretch marks?: nope

Sleep?: little better

Best moment this week?: Seeing the heart!!

Movement?: on and off

Food cravings?: really thirsty

Labor signs?: hope not

Belly button in or out?: still wide and shallow

What I miss: Liam Charles

What I'm looking forward to: my appointment next monday with the specialist

Milestone: finding out the gender...GIRL!!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

16 weeks :)

My dad thought it would be nice for me to have something to rest on at work. We moved the futon from our spare room over to the store and set it up in the back room. SO.....we took a leap of faith and set the crib up!!!! It's beautiful...it was my nephew Sam's crib and I am honored that we get to use it for our children. Okay, just thought I'd share this, this was a huge step for me.

Stats:

How far along?: 16 weeks

Total weight gain: according to the OB's scale...I am up 6 pounds total. It's odd because I weighed the same exact weight last month at 12 weeks! Patrick reminded me that I had on a coat and stuff last time though.

How much does baby weigh?: about 3 1/2 ounces

Maternity clothes?: pants and a few shirts

Stretch marks?: nope

Sleep?: tossing and turning still

Best moment this week?: my appt. yesterday. My original appt. was for tuesday, but I went in yesterday because I had been having some pressure that didn't feel right. All is well...my cervix looks fine, I will get results monday to see if it's a bladder thing. The baby's heartbeat sounded lovely! She said it was in the 140's.

Movement?: Not sure if I feel flutters or if it's gas or something. The next few weeks I should start feeling definite movement.

Food cravings?: Not really. Loving juice still.

Labor signs?: nope...just craziness with my uterus laying out its territory, pushing around everything else down there!

Belly button in or out?: still wide and shallow

What I miss: ignorant bliss...the midwife said for someone that has gone through what I have, the ignorant bliss of pregnancy is gone. Praying through this day by day!

What I'm looking forward to: feeling better...I have had a sore throat for a few days now...this morning I woke up with a sinus infection (that's the second one this pregnancy) I'm just laying around today :)

Milestone: 16 weeks was when we found out that Liam probably had a heart defect...so far we don't know with this baby the condition of its heart. I'm just thankful to be in the 2nd trimester.

Upcoming appointments: April 28th...OB to check my cervix...I had a cone biopsy done at the end of 2007, so my cervix gets checked biweekly from 18-24 weeks. And, its just a normal appointment. Maybe they'll scan over the baby while they are checking my cervix and check the gender!! May 10...Dr. Wechter for the level II ultrasound. Praying for a heart healthy baby! We for sure will know the gender this day.

Have a nice week! Maybe I'll take a pic soon of my expanding wasteline ;)

Thursday, April 8, 2010

My "bump" is just belly fat misplaced by baby, mixed with bloating :)

My title of this blog explains why I'm not putting a picture up yet! I might start next week though just to have a comparison.

How far along?: 15 weeks

Total weight gain: my scale here must lie...the other morning i was only up 3 pounds total

How much does baby weigh?: no idea

Maternity clothes?: still pants

Stretch marks?: none from this pregnancy

Sleep?: tossing and turning most of the night

Best moment this week?: Easter Sunday's church service...I am so much more thankful for the resurrection since Liam has gone into heaven. I can cry just thinking about it...we are all going to be together one day!

Movement?: I think I have actually been feeling flutters...I read that sometimes you can feel movement earlier in second pregnancies.

Food cravings?: I am usually super thirsty.

Labor signs?: hope not...but have been having major round ligament pains...did not have it like this last time at all!

Belly button in or out?: getting widened by the belly fat :)

What I miss: clear skin...it's been terrible for nine months now

What I'm looking forward to: spending the weekend with people we love

Milestone: each day of grace is a milestone

Pet peeve: bare bellied pictures on facebook...my hubby feels the same way...oy!

Saturday, March 27, 2010

13-week stats

I did these last time and I will try to keep them going this time as well!

How far along?: 13 weeks
Total weight gain: unsure...don't know how much I was to start with, but I'm guessing under 5 pounds total
How much does baby weigh?: no idea
Maternity clothes?: pants
Stretch marks?: none from this pregnancy
Sleep?: so-so...we have a new mattress and I'm still adjusting
Best moment this week?: when the doctor told me that i'm a week ahead of schedule, so she moved my due date up to 10-01-10!!
Movement?: nothing that can be felt
Food cravings?: none...i'm still queasy alot :/
Labor signs?: hope not
Belly button in or out?: starting to widen already
What I miss: my boy
What I'm looking forward to: to having more energy and feeling better, but i'm not complaining...i had prayed for lots of symptoms!
Milestone: just making it this far is a milestone to me

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

New prayer request

Meggo is preggo again! We are expecting baby #2 on 10-01-10. I knew that getting pregnant after Liam would be very emotional and trying. Well, that has been very true so far. We found out we were pregnant 6 months to the day of Liam's birth and death. We were shocked, excited and very emotional. We both sobbed our eyes out. All of those feelings, soon turned into fearful thoughts for me. I thought that maybe we jumped into this too soon after Liam's death, especially since I am still grieving his loss so intensely. Why would I want to risk going through that pain and heartbreak again? It has been a daily battle of what-if's.
Thankfully, we have made it through the 1st trimester, the first hurdle of a pregnancy! I waited until the 11th week to see a Dr. I had seen so many doctors last time, that I wasn't quite ready to step back into appointments early on. Our baby has a strong heartbeat and is very active already. We see the specialist, Dr. Wechter, on May 10th. He will do a level II ultrasound and check this baby's heart. PLEASE PRAY!! I am already so nervous about this. I know not many read this, but for those who do, thank you for your thoughts and prayers during these past few years. I will try to be dedicated in updating our blog.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

not the best news

Just a quick update...I might go into details tomorrow. Our baby has developed more fluid, now all over---called hydrops. His mitral valve has a more severe leak than last month. I am just coming up to 28 weeks and they don't think that they can help him until he is at least 32 weeks. The odds are really against him. They told me that there is a great chance of him passing away soon. If we delivered him now, I would probably have to have a classical c-section. This would put me at risk in future pregnancies. Anyways, we talked with the doctors and weighed out the risks and benefits. For now, we will keep him inside of me and hope for a miracle. My motherly instincts want to do everything I can to see him survive. I want to deliver him now and have the doctors intervene as much as possible. But, after talking with the doctors and hearing Patrick's thoughts, we will just wait. I will be checked weekly by the specialist in Saginaw. Please pray with us...that he will keep fighting until 32 weeks, that we will completely trust in the Lord through this, and that us, along with the doctors, will have the wisdom to make the best decision for our baby and for me and my health. Thank you for your comments on here! With love--Megan