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Wednesday, July 15, 2009

not the best news

Just a quick update...I might go into details tomorrow. Our baby has developed more fluid, now all over---called hydrops. His mitral valve has a more severe leak than last month. I am just coming up to 28 weeks and they don't think that they can help him until he is at least 32 weeks. The odds are really against him. They told me that there is a great chance of him passing away soon. If we delivered him now, I would probably have to have a classical c-section. This would put me at risk in future pregnancies. Anyways, we talked with the doctors and weighed out the risks and benefits. For now, we will keep him inside of me and hope for a miracle. My motherly instincts want to do everything I can to see him survive. I want to deliver him now and have the doctors intervene as much as possible. But, after talking with the doctors and hearing Patrick's thoughts, we will just wait. I will be checked weekly by the specialist in Saginaw. Please pray with us...that he will keep fighting until 32 weeks, that we will completely trust in the Lord through this, and that us, along with the doctors, will have the wisdom to make the best decision for our baby and for me and my health. Thank you for your comments on here! With love--Megan

5 comments:

Unknown said...

Love you Megan. Give me a call.

Renee' said...

I don't have the right words, but God definetly does. I know you trust him. His will be done! Love you all

Unknown said...

You are in our thoughts and prayers! We are praying for a miracle for the baby.
Love, Alice Verbeek

Kendyl Murphy said...

Your family is in our prayers. We've asked the Murphys to add you to their prayers also. Love and hugs to all of the family!

Patrick and Megan said...

Thanks for the support everyone! We are so encouraged by everyone praying!